YOU CAN BE HAPPY
Happy is the person who finds wisdom and who can understand things . Proverbs 3:13
Because? What they do reflects what they think. Walking with them, living like them, build identical patterns that will make us unhappy people. Just as they are unhappy.
1. Change your way of thinking.
Romans 12.2 Do not live like people live in this world, but let God transform you inwardly by a complete change of their minds. So you know the will of God, which is good, perfect and pleasing to him .
To value time. It is one of raw materials for the construction of happiness. Seek happiness in most of our time because it is not easy, but can be happy all the time. Therefore, happiness has to be learned, cultivated and valued.
To value the odds. If we learn from them, overcome limitations. People who were between life and death, who have gone through tragedies, who have lost loved ones, have changed their way of thinking, learn now seek friends now, travel now. Do not leave it for later.
2. A daily victories
Psalm 90.12 Teach us to number our days, so that a heart of wisdom .
If you do not write, you will forget. So make a list, daily, of all the good that happened to you. The beautiful phrase he heard from his daughter, the encounter with a person you love, the blessing he received from God.
3. Do not be upset by little
Luke 6:45 The good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth evil, because of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks .
How you want to be remembered by your children and grandchildren? Does a sheet that is not well stretched worth all that fight? Missed the bus? No use pulling the hair, he already was. Talk to your someone at the bus stop, flip through a magazine while waiting for the next.
4. Do not put off tasks
Ecclesiastes 9:10 Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might, for in the grave, where you are going, there is no work , nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom .
Solve just unpleasant and difficult issues. Leave for tomorrow makes us tense and overwhelms the mind. If you are worried about something, resolved soon.
5. Change the routine
Matthew 6:34. Do not be anxious, therefore, for tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Sufficient for the day is the evil.
The greatest evil of the day is to understand that it is new. If you repeat every day the same thing, you are leaving to create new interests, experience new activities. You sleep late every night. Invert. Get up early and go have breakfast in the park. And you always go to bed early. Invert. Invite friends home and make a wake familiar with good chat, a tasty snack, music and prayer.
Finally a note of happiness for this world now.
Proverbs 19:23 He who fears the Lord will have a long, happy and peaceful life .
6. Forget the competition
Ecclesiastes 9:11 It is not always the fastest runners win races, are not always the bravest soldiers who win battles .
His friend was promoted and you do not? Your neighbor is gaining a lot of money, but it works every day of the week, do not see the family and do not have time for friends. Why enter this competition?
7. Stay lighter, get rid of excess
Matthew 6 19 Do not let them gather riches in this world, where moth and rust destroy, and where Ladros break in and steal.
We have a habit of putting things together. Accumulating even when we do not need. Clothes that little or were never used, dinner sets that are saved for 25 years, games, toys, furniture. Stay lighter, help others, many may be in need exactly your excess.
8. Love your partner for what it is
Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave his life for her.
Do you just love a part of it? Would you loved that boy 20 years ago and not your husband today. After years of working all things need adjustment and maintenance, but your partner, despite being bald, a little fat, is your man. Love it for what it is.
9. Intimacy yes, no disrespect
Romans 12:10 Love each other with affection of brothers in Christ , and in everything give preference to each other .
The partner and family deserve at least the same consideration as friends. And you deserve the same from them.
10. Say "I love you"
Matthew 12. 34- 35 The mouth speaks what the heart is full. The good man brings good from your deposit good and the evil man brings evil of your deposit bad things .
Say I love you to your partner, to your family, to your friends. Congratulate them for success and for things well done. Praise is not a sin. Give recognition to those who deserve recognition. Turn your love into words.
Finally a happy message for this time Brazilian
5. Matthew 7 Blessed are those who have mercy on others, for God will have mercy on them as well.